Bisola's been taking her duty as director very seriously and cracking the whip to make sure everything goes according to schedule. Th...
Bisola's been taking her duty as director very seriously and cracking the whip to make sure everything goes according to schedule. This is understandable considering the Housemates only have one evening to shoot a whole Horror film and there's a laundry list of scenes to get through. Constant interjections would only slow things down and so she shot down a lot people's suggestions, particularly TBoss, according to Debie-Rise. Perhaps it's to be expected therefore that she was inadvertently picking at an old scab all day when she was just trying to keep things on track.
That said, it wasn't TBoss who instigated things. Instead it was Bisola who asked the Housemates if she really does bully TBoss. In her defense, Bisola said she was genuinely trying to understand if there was a problem with the way she engaged so she could grow as a person and do better! Bassey agreed that she did bully TBoss while Debie-Rise said it wasn't necessarily bullying, she just shot down TBoss' suggestions constantly then accepted the same suggestions if someone else made them.
TBoss piped in at that moment irritated with all of them for opining about her in her presence instead of asking her how she felt directly. Bisola, on the other hand, tried to explain that they weren't talking about her directly but TBoss was already upset and started dolling out examples of every instance Bisola had been rude or snapped at her that day. She also pointed that she and Debie-Rise never got a chance to shoot with the camera and she'd elected to say nothing inspite of all of this. Bisola countered this by saying TBoss always wanted to play victim and would never acknowledge when she was wrong. She also said one didn't need to be "loud and aggressive" in order to be hurtful.
Efe tried his best to mediate. He acknowledged that TBoss was sometimes too sensitive and defensive but also asked Bisola to (as a leader) be more cognizant of how she related to people who weren't her friends or were just more sensitive. TBoss walked away after a while and after a brief discussion they all elected to focus on the job at hand. Once again, neither party wants to acknowledge their part in the dispute. Does this mean this is a fight we'll be seeing again soon?
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